Happy marriage dates. How to choose a wedding date
2016
As many remember, 2016 is a leap year - instead of 365 days, it will have one more day. Popular rumor ascribes a lot of unpleasant properties to leap years: supposedly they bring all kinds of misfortunes, quarrels and failures. Is it so? It's hard to say, but a lot of people believe it.
If you decide to get married in 2016, surely one of your loved ones will definitely convince you not to do this, since such a marriage will be concluded under an unlucky star, and such newlyweds will certainly divorce. Here we can say with confidence: whether you get divorced or not will depend only and exclusively on you, and the number of days in a year will not affect this fact in any way.
Leap year- This is a human invention for the convenience of counting on a calendar. Therefore, if you love each other, feel free to marry in 2016. Even the church does not forbid!
Why not choose popular wedding dates?
No matter how attractive and popular a particular date is, it is not recommended to be tempted by it. IN this case we are talking about such beautiful numbers as, for example, 07.07. (7th of July) or 03.03. (third of March).
Firstly, these are gigantic queues at the registry offices and sometimes inflated prices in many restaurants - especially if the beautiful number falls on Friday or Saturday. And secondly, in the end, no flat date is special for you. Instead, pick a day that makes sense for both of you and that works for most guests.
How to choose a wedding date by date of birth?
Numerology can give you good advice. By the date of birth of the bride and groom, you can determine on which day fate will be especially favorable to them. So, let's talk about how to calculate the date of the wedding according to numerology.
First way
There is a simple formula according to which the dates of birth of both newlyweds are taken: for example, the bride was born on 07/23/1989, and the groom on 01/07/1886. You need to add together the numbers from each date. Then we add the numbers from the resulting value until we get a single-digit number.
- 07.1989 - add each of the numbers: 2+3+0+7+1+9+8+9 = 39. 3+9 = 12. 1+2 = 3.
- 01.1986 - add each of the numbers: 0 + 7 + 0 + 1 + 1 + 9 + 8 + 6 \u003d 32. 3 + 2 \u003d 5.
So, we got that the number of the bride is 3, the number of the groom is 5. Then we add these values \u200b\u200band get 8. This means that the eighth month, that is, August, will be the ideal month for their wedding. If you got "allied" numbers 10, 11, 12, then you do not need to bring them to a single value.
To determine a specific date, you can use this method: add the first and last digit in the date of birth. So, according to the date of birth of the bride:
- 207.1989 – 2+9=11; 1+1 = 2.
Groom's date of birth:
- 001.1986 – 0+6= 6.
This means that the ideal dates for the wedding of our hypothetical lovers would be August 2 or 6. If the chosen date suits you, it is probably the one you should choose for your marriage - after all, the support of higher powers has never harmed anyone.
Sometimes couples who were insanely happy before marriage break up simply because they got married during an unfavorable period. Of course, the right wedding date cannot guarantee an absolutely cloudless family life, but at least it will significantly reduce the likelihood of a sudden cooling of feelings and a subsequent divorce.
At the same time, it is necessary to understand that choosing the right date is not so simple. The astrologer will have to analyze all the important indicators: from the location of the stars in the sky on a certain day of the year to the horoscopes of each of the future spouses. However, in some countries, for example, in India, the bride and groom always turn to the astrologer for help and patiently wait for him to pick up a happy date for them.
Lunar days for a wedding
Very important when choosing a wedding date is the current lunar day. You can find out when this or that lunar day begins in the lunar calendar. According to astrology, the days in lunar month located like this:
Favorable lunar days for a wedding: 10, 11, 16, 17, 21, 26, 27.
Wedding is contraindicated: 3, 4, 5, 8, 9, 13, 14, 19 lunar days.
Among the favorable lunar days 21 lunar days are considered the most suitable for a wedding. The symbol of such a day is the winged horse and favorite of the muses Pegasus. It's an inspiration day active action, new ideas, courage, swiftness and creative upsurge. It is most suitable for holding various bright and memorable events: concerts, exhibitions, performances. Moreover, many astrologers believe that on this day the energy of oaths and promises is very strong, which are subsequently not recommended to be broken. As for marriage on the 21st lunar day, this is a favorable time for unions between creative and famous people, because Pegasus patronizes poets, actors, singers and everyone who is associated with creative activity. In order for family life to develop successfully, the wedding should be bright, magnificent, spectacular and interesting, with many surprises and practical jokes. It is necessary to invite as many guests as possible and arrange a noisy feast. But neither fights nor drunken revelry on such a day are unacceptable. Astrologers say that, as the wedding takes place on the 21st lunar day, this will be the whole subsequent family life of the newlyweds.
Wedding and the Moon in the signs of the zodiac
It is also important in which sign of the Zodiac the Moon was at the time of the marriage. So, the most favorable period is the stay of the Moon in Pisces. This sign portends a romantic and spiritual union, when the spouses will understand each other literally from a half-word. The Moon in Pisces suggests that feelings will be very deep throughout life, and the ability to empathize will help spouses overcome the most difficult problems in their lives. family relationships. The relationship will be so strong that the pain of one, even at a distance, will be felt by the other. Lovers who get married on such a day will become a real creative team that can translate into reality a lot of artistic ideas.
In general, the stay of the Moon at the time of the wedding in the constellations of Pisces, Capricorn, Libra and Gemini favorably affects the fate of the newlyweds. And the presence of the Moon in Aquarius, Aries, Cancer and Virgo has a negative impact. The periods of stay of the night luminary in other signs are considered neutral.
Wedding day in terms of numerology
It is also necessary to consider the numerological meaning of the chosen wedding day. To do this, you need to add the number of the day, month and year of the marriage, i.e. if you have scheduled the wedding date for October 14, 2014, then the number of the day will be 1+3+1+0+2+0+1+4=12=1 +2=3. Thus this day is in charge of the troika.
From a numerological point of view auspicious days for weddings are days whose number is 1, 3, 5, 7, and 9. Odd numbers they say that on this day it is better to abstain from marriage.
Year and month of marriage
You can not neglect the value of the year and month of marriage. So it is very undesirable to marry and get married in a leap year. And the year preceding the leap year is considered the most favorable for a wedding. So the most favorable for the wedding in the near future will be 2015 and 2019. And the least favorable are 2016 and 2020.
Finally, it is worth referring to the original Russian sign, which says that the month of the wedding affects the entire fate of the newlyweds. So the best months for a wedding are February, April, July, August, October and November. It is strictly contraindicated to tie the knot in May.
However, even the favorable arrangement of the planets in the sky is not able to force two people to live together with each other for many years if there is no love between them. Therefore, we can say with confidence that if you sincerely and with all your heart love each other, then neither the planet nor folk omens can't interfere with your happiness.
It is no coincidence that strangers become the closest to each other. Everything is already decided for them in heaven. Not everyone thinks so, but astrologers have their own opinion on this matter.
Even the person who does not believe in an astrologer, however, when it comes to his wedding, often begins to wonder how to choose the right wedding date. After all, marriage is a serious life step, so you don’t want disappointments.
Now, it has become fashionable to plan a wedding on the same dates (07/07/07, 08/08/08, etc.). This is not only a beautiful series of numbers, but also a date that brings prosperity. Three sevens have always meant good luck, and 8 - endless family life. If you truly believe in it, then it will be so.
Wedding date is not just numbers
A young couple who have decided to conclude their relationship have been thinking for a long time on what date to plan their wedding. After all, the choice of date for marriage plays an important role, given the fact that too many couples break up.
Undoubtedly, the date of the wedding is not a guarantee of a happy life for the spouses. However, a successful, correct date helps to create excellent relationships in the family. An unsuccessful marriage date reduces the chances of a happy family life.
Newlyweds wary of leap year
Many young couples are afraid to get married on a leap year. They think that nothing good can come from such a marriage. Indeed, in a leap year there are more conflict situations, including divorces. For many people, this is a very difficult year. However, according to legend, it is believed that the leap year is the year of brides, in this year the stars are favorable to them. When a leap year comes, each unmarried girl she could choose a groom for herself, and it was possible to refuse her only as a last resort.
Many believe that if you get married in May, then you will toil
It is well known that the month of May is the most unlucky month for a wedding. Everyone has heard signs in this regard. Only with what they are connected, knows, far, not everyone.
May was considered an unlucky month for weddings, as it was necessary to do gardening, and as a result, the feeling of love, a young couple, should not be distracted from important matters. Love is either there or not, but you always want to eat. Therefore, people were engaged in growing crops. And only in the fall, after the harvest, weddings were played.
But it was a long time ago. And all signs are already in the past. If the newlyweds decide to get married in May, then let them get married in May. The main thing is that it should be a common decision, and the bride and groom believe in a better future. If one of the young people still trusts signs and is afraid to choose this month for a wedding, then it is better to refuse. Such doubts can provoke adverse consequences for marriage, since self-hypnosis often plays a cruel joke on people. Both newlyweds must be firmly convinced of their intentions.
It was connected with the way of life, field work, agriculture. It would never have occurred to anyone to walk a wedding during sowing or harvesting. Wedding celebrations began after the completion of all work. Nowadays, everything is much simpler, but it depends on the choice of the date of the wedding future life cells of society.
So how do you choose a wedding date? If you are Orthodox and strictly adhere to church canons, the time of the wedding can be coordinated with the Orthodox calendar.
For those who believe in astrology, numerology and horoscopes, there are methods for calculating the wedding day by date of birth, names. Also in astrology, not only the number is important, but also the day of the week when you are going to marry. According to numerology, Friday and Sunday are considered the most successful for such an event.
It has become very fashionable to marry on a beautiful date, such as 10/20/2010.
Often, young people choose a wedding day in memory of the day they met, the first date, the first kiss, or something like that.
If you want to choose a wedding date based on convenience, consider the time needed to prepare for the celebration, buy a dress, and so on. If there is an opportunity and desire to arrange a honeymoon trip, then when calculating the date, you also need to take this into account. You should not arrange a celebration on weekdays, think about the guests, it is much more convenient and practical to do it on weekends.
A little about signs. It was considered a bad omen to marry on a leap year, there is no reason or evidence for this, but, nevertheless, it is not worth the risk. In the old days, a leap year was considered bad, unsuccessful. It may be a coincidence, but in leap years there are many wars and diseases. A better known sign is not to marry in May. Family life will be unsettled. Again, this sign has its roots in antiquity, when the month of May was considered a hot time for agriculture and to postpone sowing to play a wedding would mean staying hungry until the next harvest. Employees of registry offices throughout the vast post-Soviet space note that in May their work is sharply reduced. Although, according to a poll, couples who joined in May are no different from other couples who got married at other times. To believe in signs or not to believe, let each couple decide for themselves.
If you choose a date according to the time of year, then of course it is better to choose a warm time (but not heat). A more affordable price for vegetables - fruits, and the choice is much better. Wedding cortege on ice and walking around the city in winter time under the howl of a blizzard is not the best option. And the bride will be much more comfortable in a light lace dress than in a fur coat and boots.
Choosing a wedding date, of course, does not guarantee you a cloudless life without quarrels and a showdown. And no matter what date you stop at, remember that a lot depends on you, and not on horoscopes and signs.
Regardless of whether you choose a date together or someone has given someone this mission, in addition to personal preferences, there are also certain factors, objective and not so, that can ease the pangs of choice. First, let's define the time of year. Ideally, this is the favorite time of the year for both the bride and groom, or one of the most capricious ones. Another option is the next quarter from the date of the offer, if that's too much to bear. Each season, along with its merits (however, the merits of winter are not entirely clear) also carries a number of restrictions.
Firstly, these are religious restrictions, and they should be heeded, even if you and (or) your significant other are not religious. Orthodox Church advises to refrain from weddings:
- On the eve of Wednesday, Friday and Sunday (and if in Russian, then you can’t do a wedding on Tuesday, Thursday and Saturday) - the rule is valid throughout the year
- On the eve of the great church holidays
- During multi-day fasts
- During Christmas time and continuous weeks
Now a little more by month:
- January - wedding this month to early widowhood
- February - family life will pass under the sign of consent
- March - the bride will live on a foreign side
- April - variable happiness
- May - marries this month for imminent betrayal in his own house
- June - honeymoon of a lifetime
- July - good memories for life
- August - husband - and lover and friend
- September - quiet and peaceful life
- October - hard and hard life
- November - very Rich life
- December - every year love is stronger
Signs should not be taken seriously and reverently, especially since for every “bad” sign there is a “favorable” one. There are many examples from life when marriages concluded at the most favorable time broke up, and marriages concluded at a very unfavorable time were extremely happy.
Astrologers believe that marriage will be successfulif it is concluded on the 4th, 5th, 7th, 10th and 11th month from the month of birth. For example, for a bride born in February and a groom born in September, the months of June and December would be ideal. And these guys (astrologers) advise marriage at a time when the planet Venus (the goddess of love, after all) is strong, this is the key to a strong and happy marriage. From this point of view, April, June, the end of July - the beginning of August, October and the end of November are favorable for 2006 (it is worth looking at moon calendar).
In addition, there is another contraindication from astrologers - you can not marry on the days of the new moon, full moon, the first and last quarter of the moon. This is due to the fact that on such days the Sun, symbolizing masculinity, and the Moon, a symbol of the feminine, oppose each other.
